The right Woman to Marry

Marriage is a spiritual bonding between a man and a woman. Finding the right woman to marry is difficult and challenging as well as finding the perfect man. It takes years to really get to know your partner well. Days or months of being together simply won't cut it, just because, you tend to not see someone's flaws or shortcomings when you're madly in love and infatuated with each other

You may never really know if she is the one, except with the benefit of hindsight. However, there are certain things you can look at when deciding if she's the one for you. The first question to consider of course is whether she loves you? Seems like a stupid question to consider!! The obvious reaction most men would have is - of course, she loves me. Well, maybe she loves your money more than you - think about that?? And if that is the case, would you be comfortable getting married to her?

To attract and marry the right woman begins internally. By developing the following qualities, you will discover the key to living an abundant and personally fulfilling life with the love of your life.

Generosity of your time and attention.

The right woman will be strongly attracted to a man who freely and willingly shares his time with her. Sincerely conveying an interest in her goals and dreams and what she wants to accomplish in life is very appealing to the right woman. She knows you are focused on your career, but remember that life is all about love - not how many material goals you attain, how far you go in your company or landing the next big deal. She wants your undivided attention when she’s sharing her personal dreams with you. Take the time to pull yourself away from the newspaper,  Local news, the football game, and/or the internet and listen to her share her day with you. It’s the emotional connection that makes the right woman want to do more for you day in and day out. When you give your attention to her, you instill a feeling of worthiness.

The right woman desires to express her hopes, dreams, concerns and worries to you without fear of condemnation. Ignoring her is the worst thing you can do when she's sharing this information. Nothing makes her feel unappreciated and unloved faster than being shut out by the man she loves. She doesn’t want you to find a solution or fix the issues she discusses with you. She only wants you to acknowledge her feelings and offer your emotional support.

Making her your priority in life.

Your generosity of your time and attention conveys a sense of security and a belief that she is your main priority in life. It is your responsibility within the relationship to build her confidence up, not tear her down. When her self-esteem is high, she will in turn have the capacity to shower you with her love, attention, devotion and time.

The right woman is not attracted to a one-dimensional man who is focused primarily on his career and furthering his agenda. The right woman will not share her life with a man who makes her feel as if she’s near or at the bottom of your priority list.

Love of family and friends.

The right woman wants to share her joy and happiness with family and friends alike. A man who treats his family and friends with respect, loyalty and love knows the importance of relationships and how they enrich and enhance life.

 Positive attitude.

The right woman is attracted to a man with positive energy. A man who can align his thoughts, words and actions is someone who is not self-centered. The right woman is attracted to a man who backs his positive words with action. He does not wear his feelings on his shoulder or allows every little perceived slight get under his skin and ruin his whole day. He does not get mad every time he gets in the car and encounters bad drivers. He does not go around believing that the world is against him. He knows how to pick his battles and stands up for his beliefs without creating strife for no reason at all.

He gives people the benefit of the doubt and does not take everything so personally. He does not dissect every inflection and tone of voice in what is said in his conversations, looking for an attack on himself and a reason to fight back. He is man enough to forgive, forget and move on. He does not allow negative thoughts to take root in his heart, leading to grudges against others.

Respect and honor.

Your life will be blessed in accordance to the amount of respect and honor you show your relationship partner. The more you hold her in your highest regard, the more your life will be full of favor. We all know of men who treat the woman they love with the least amount of respect, honor and consideration over others. She has to fend for herself. To really experience an abundant life, she should be the one person you treat the best.

Trust.

The right woman to marry must have trust in you. A strong relationship involves trusting each other deeply. The most common areas that are a cause of crumbling marriages are money, infidelity, and in-laws. With trust, these areas can be worked out easier. An overly jealous woman is a sign of possessiveness and has a major trust issues. These signs will never disappear over time. It will actually get worse after marriage. It may fade as you get older particularly if she knows that you're not capable of making love to a woman any longer. If a woman is jealous type, she will be jealous with your own parents or relatives as well when it comes to attending holiday celebration or parties. She will control you and persuade you into going to her side of the family instead of sharing the day between your relatives and hers. Worse case scenario will be your jealous wife competing for attention with her own kids.

Understanding and Kindness.

A woman that understands her man is a keeper and the right woman to marry. Kindness, on the other hand, goes with being able to understand how her husband feels from time to time. Being able to go out with your friends at times without getting a hassle nor receiving a guilty conscience from your partner is awesome. Accepting that sometimes, time with the "boys" is needed for her partner to unwind.