Huwebes, Abril 28, 2011

How to grow friendship

People equal friends
Talking is essential among friends
Friends acknowledge friends
Friends listen to friends
Friend attend to friends
Friends show empathy with friends
Friends touch friends
Friends praise friends
Friend are loyal and trustworthy
Friends are equal
Friends reveal their feelings

There is certain chemistry with friends just as in a love relationship. Talking with each other requires reciprocity, acknowledgement. Listening to friend is an important step in building a closer friendship, focus and pay attention;  meaning that your ears, your eyes, your body, and your feelings are all focused on  your friends in conversation. Empathy is identifying with your friend’s feelings and seeing life through your friend’s eyes. Confidences are freely given when they are received with empathy among friends. Touching is a warm form of communication between friends. Affirmation is a powerful tool for growing a friend’s genuine praise can effect you friend’s lives. Be liberal with praise for your entire friend, including your casual once.  Loyalty and trust go hand in hand for friends. Friends can trust you with their secret, both large and small, because good friendship it always evens out in the end. Trust is to one person is the most difficult to regain when you lose it. Friends are on seesaw. In a healthy relationship, friends are equals. We feel closest to our friend when we are suffering together, when we feel like out friends needs us, or when we feel a friend has shared something of great importance with us. Aside from your family and special someone best friend is one of you can’t have because this person is like your mother that can understand you whatever you’ve done wrong. And of course don’t forget God to bless your friendship.

Miyerkules, Abril 27, 2011

Five ways to protect your Wi-Fi network from hackers


For the less tech savvy among us, protecting an Internet router can be a daunting task, requiring technical know-how that gets confusing. But with just a few seconds, the router’s manual, and some understanding of what you’re looking for, setting up at least some router security can be pretty easy, and can save Internet users from issues like identity theft and an unfortunate visit from the U.S. government. Here are a few tips for keeping your network, and your data, away from those who would hijack it.

1. Set up a password - or even better - an encryption key

Adding some kind of password to your network is a way to immediately discourage probably 99 percent of the people who could jack into your Wi-Fi connection remotely, and it really is just about the easiest thing ever to do to protect yourself. All you need is the Ethernet cable that comes with a router when you pull it out of the box or installed by a cable company, and the manual that comes with the router. By using the cable to plug directly into the router, a computer can access the router’s internal settings using an Internet browser. The address (usually in the form of what’s called an IP address, generally 192.168.1.1 or something similar) gets you into the router’s inner workings, but you need the cable to access it, so it can’t be altered remotely. The router’s manufacturer password is also included in the manual (usually it’s “admin” or “password”), and you should change that too from the settings menu for added internal security to keep prying eyes out.
From there, it’s usually as simple as going to the security settings for your router and activating an encrypted password called a WEP or WPA key. This is presented in the form of a long chain of letters and numbers that the router can generate for you. You can specify a password of your own, but the router’s generated key is a much stronger encryption than using a password someone might be able to guess. Most modern computers will save passwords when you connect to your home Wi-Fi network, so you shouldn’t need to specify the network password again when signing onto the Internet, unless something gets reset.

2. Turn on MAC address filtering and router firewalls

While it is absolutely essential to use a password or encryption key to keep your Wi-Fi network secure, there are a number of other easy steps to make it even more protected.
Each computer that uses your network has a specific number attached to it called a “MAC (Media Access Control) address.” This is actually a physical number assigned to the actual Wi-Fi adapter hardware in your computer or mobile device. From the internal settings of your router, you can determine the MAC addresses of the computers that you want to be able to access your network and specify them to the router. Any device that doesn’t have the right MAC address will be denied access.
In order to set MAC addresses, you’ll need to have the devices you want to be able to use on your network connected so you can see their addresses in the router’s “MAC Address” section. There, you can usually just click a button that turns on the router’s MAC limiting setting, and then select which addresses are allowed access to the network.
Most routers also have an internal firewall program you can enable from the settings menu. This is anti-hacking software that makes a network more difficult to access from the outside, and turning it on is generally really easy. It’s also a good idea to protect your computers and devices with firewall software (Windows has one built in, but it’s not a bad idea to invest in better ones) that you can buy commercially to protect your data even further.
There is a slight inconvenience with MAC address filters, as they can complicate things whenever you want to add a new device to your network. So if your wife's cousin wants to connect to the network, for instance, you'll need to go back and add his MAC address to the router's list. Of course, this is a small price to pay for added security.

3. Change your network’s SSID and make it invisible

From within the same settings menus that you adjusted the MAC settings and turned on your encryption key, you can also set whether your Wi-Fi network is “discoverable.” This means that the router won’t broadcast its ID information (called the SSID) over the air for other devices to lock onto. Only devices that know to look for the router, like the ones you’ve already authorized to connect to it, will be able to use your connection.
Generally, you’ll find the ability to alter discoverability in the security tab of your router’s settings browser window. It’s usually a button that discusses making your network discoverable or disabling SSID broadcast. This is also a good opportunity to change your router’s SSID to something other than the manufacturer preset. There’s a reason you see so many networks named "Linksys" or "D-Link" -- those are routers that have their manufacturer defaults still activated, and they suggest to hackers that the passwords are still set to defaults as well. Either way, it’s easier for someone to get into your network when they have more information, and a manufacturer SSID doesn’t help. Change it, then make it invisible. Just remember: You don’t want your network discoverable, and you don’t want your router to broadcast its SSID. Turn those things off.

4. Assign IP addresses to your devices

This gets a bit technical, but like the MAC address filtering, it’s not nearly as complex as it at first seems. Each device that connects to the Internet does so using what’s called an IP address. Most networks use a system called “dynamic IP addresses,” which means that every time you connect to your network, the system assigns a temporary IP address to your system. That’s easy, but it also means anyone jacking into your network can get a temporary address just as easily as you can.
Instead, look for a tab in your router’s setup menu that lets you set “static IP addresses.” Like MAC filtering, you should be able to see the addresses of your devices at the moment; write them down, or specify a series of numbers to the router when you’re prompted to. These look complex (they’re usually long, like the 192.168.1.1 address), but that doesn’t mean they have to be complicated. You can actually set addresses with the same sets of numbers up front, but alter the numbers at the end to keep them consistent and easy to remember for you, but more difficult for intruders to access.
Once you set static IP addresses, you’ll have to use the numbers you wrote down on your computers when they try to connect to the network. In your Network Settings, you can specify a device’s IP address so that it always uses the same number, then you can tell your router to only allow device’s using those specified addresses to connect. While the MAC filtering will keep out some less in-the-know network jumpers, more complex hackers can get around that technology; they’ll have more trouble with your static, filtered IP addresses.

5. Avoid open, unprotected Wi-Fi networks

This is more for when you’re out in the world than at home, using your computer or smartphone to try to access the Internet when you’re at the airport or in other places. Beware of open, access-free networks. If they’re open to you, that means they’re open to other people, too, and your sensitive information can be plucked out of the air by people who have a little bit of expertise in this area.
“Free Public Wi-Fi,” for example, is a network that will often pop up in public places when you’re searching for a network. Don’t connect to it, though, as it isn’t really a free public network, and could very well be a quick and easy way for someone with ill intentions to get access to your computer.
For the most part, the best thing you can do is avoid open networks you don’t trust whenever possible. If you do decide to access an open network, limit what you do on it. Don’t access sensitive websites or use important data like your bank passwords while attached to the network. You should also take steps to keep your computer from saving sensitive Internet information that could be accessed later, like a history or cookies cache. These are bits of data your web browser saves from websites to make accessing them easier later. When you tell a website to save your password, for example, it leaves a “cookie,” or small program, on your browser for use later. You can easily clear these from your browser’s settings menu.
These are simple steps you can take to protect your network, your data and your privacy, but the technical aspect often frightens off people who aren’t familiar with their Internet hardware. Trust us when we say that it’s usually less complicated than it appears. Consult your router’s manual if you need to, and look for the keywords in your router’s settings menu: things like “encryption key,” “firewall,” “disabling broadcasting and IP” and “MAC address filters” are good. Once you set them up and write the numbers down, you should be able to breathe a little easier knowing your access to the Internet is protected.

Choosing the right Man to Marry

Choosing the right man to marry can be challenging currently, when people seem to marry just for the sake of being married, so they are not alone. However, this is one time not to follow the herd, because there are simply too many people rushing into marriage without thinking of the consequences. Marriage is supposed to be forever, but how can it be forever when people get married for the presents, pregnancy, and the fear of being alone? If you get married for one of those reasons, you will surely find yourself headed for divorce court eventually. The trick, of course, is to choose the right man the first time

 Finding the perfect man is never an easy task and never goes according to any plan that one may develop in her head. The first step to finding the perfect man for you is figuring out exactly what you want and begin to acquire those qualities.
Becoming what you wish to attract is always the best course of action in attracting the right man to choose for marriage. If you want a trustworthy man, you must become a trustworthy woman; if you want a caring man, then you need to become a caring woman. This simple technique will help you attract the right type of man to you, and then choosing the right man is easy.

Rushing into a relationship never works. Take your time and develop a strong friendship first before heading to the next level. Building a strong friendship allows the two of you to gain the trust and open communication, which is vital to a healthy relationship.
Relaxing and taking the time to get to know a man inside and out is a great way to determine if he is the right one to choose for marriage. Do not try to hurry love, as the song says; go leisurely, always take your time, and if the relationship does not seem right on the mark, back off.
Settling for a mediocre relationship is never good, so do not settle for it. Speak up if there is something huge that irks you. You deserve a man who will make you feel great, emotionally, sexually and in all the ways, which are important in a relationship. Men who begin belittling you or controlling in the early stages of the relationship will only do it more as time passes.

Tips To Be A Perfect Man
Perfect man love everything in their life. They love Cities, Villages, plains, deserts, oceans, mountains, animals and everything in the nature. They generally love life
A man never complains and don’t waste their time with moaning. They never wish to be other person. . They don’t have barriers in their mind.
They are always excited for what they are doing.
They don’t get bored. They find something to do even in boring moments. They hate showing off and pretending to enjoy. They enjoy realities.
They are independent and don’t feel guilty. They don’t punish themselves.
They live in the present time and are not worried about the future.
They are not afraid of unknowns and always search for new experiences. They love mysterious things.
He is not ignorant and stupid.
They don’t enforce their love to beloveds. Free from expectations, their relationship is based on free choice and mutual respect.
Their private corner is very important for them. Sometimes they really love to be alone with the self.
They don’t fall in love several times. Usually they fall in love once and forever.
They are honest, frank and straightforward. They live based on their wishes and ideas.
They are not stubborn. But they choose their way by own.
He ignore stupid traditions and irrelevant barriers.
Seriously and attentively, they’re wise, open-minded and practical
A man that  have strong relationship with God. He love nature and the world.
A man  accept what they are. They love themselves and try to be best. The most natural people, They are themselves and not anybody else.

Martes, Abril 26, 2011

The right Woman to Marry

Marriage is a spiritual bonding between a man and a woman. Finding the right woman to marry is difficult and challenging as well as finding the perfect man. It takes years to really get to know your partner well. Days or months of being together simply won't cut it, just because, you tend to not see someone's flaws or shortcomings when you're madly in love and infatuated with each other


You may never really know if she is the one, except with the benefit of hindsight. However, there are certain things you can look at when deciding if she's the one for you. The first question to consider of course is whether she loves you? Seems like a stupid question to consider!! The obvious reaction most men would have is - of course, she loves me. Well, maybe she loves your money more than you - think about that?? And if that is the case, would you be comfortable getting married to her?


To attract and marry the right woman begins internally. By developing the following qualities, you will discover the key to living an abundant and personally fulfilling life with the love of your life.


Generosity of your time and attention.


The right woman will be strongly attracted to a man who freely and willingly shares his time with her. Sincerely conveying an interest in her goals and dreams and what she wants to accomplish in life is very appealing to the right woman. She knows you are focused on your career, but remember that life is all about love - not how many material goals you attain, how far you go in your company or landing the next big deal. She wants your undivided attention when she’s sharing her personal dreams with you. Take the time to pull yourself away from the newspaper,  Local news, the football game, and/or the internet and listen to her share her day with you. It’s the emotional connection that makes the right woman want to do more for you day in and day out. When you give your attention to her, you instill a feeling of worthiness.

The right woman desires to express her hopes, dreams, concerns and worries to you without fear of condemnation. Ignoring her is the worst thing you can do when she's sharing this information. Nothing makes her feel unappreciated and unloved faster than being shut out by the man she loves. She doesn’t want you to find a solution or fix the issues she discusses with you. She only wants you to acknowledge her feelings and offer your emotional support.

Making her your priority in life.


Your generosity of your time and attention conveys a sense of security and a belief that she is your main priority in life. It is your responsibility within the relationship to build her confidence up, not tear her down. When her self-esteem is high, she will in turn have the capacity to shower you with her love, attention, devotion and time.

The right woman is not attracted to a one-dimensional man who is focused primarily on his career and furthering his agenda. The right woman will not share her life with a man who makes her feel as if she’s near or at the bottom of your priority list.


Love of family and friends.


The right woman wants to share her joy and happiness with family and friends alike. A man who treats his family and friends with respect, loyalty and love knows the importance of relationships and how they enrich and enhance life.


 Positive attitude.


The right woman is attracted to a man with positive energy. A man who can align his thoughts, words and actions is someone who is not self-centered. The right woman is attracted to a man who backs his positive words with action. He does not wear his feelings on his shoulder or allows every little perceived slight get under his skin and ruin his whole day. He does not get mad every time he gets in the car and encounters bad drivers. He does not go around believing that the world is against him. He knows how to pick his battles and stands up for his beliefs without creating strife for no reason at all.

He gives people the benefit of the doubt and does not take everything so personally. He does not dissect every inflection and tone of voice in what is said in his conversations, looking for an attack on himself and a reason to fight back. He is man enough to forgive, forget and move on. He does not allow negative thoughts to take root in his heart, leading to grudges against others.

Respect and honor.


Your life will be blessed in accordance to the amount of respect and honor you show your relationship partner. The more you hold her in your highest regard, the more your life will be full of favor. We all know of men who treat the woman they love with the least amount of respect, honor and consideration over others. She has to fend for herself. To really experience an abundant life, she should be the one person you treat the best.
Trust.
The right woman to marry must have trust in you. A strong relationship involves trusting each other deeply. The most common areas that are a cause of crumbling marriages are money, infidelity, and in-laws. With trust, these areas can be worked out easier. An overly jealous woman is a sign of possessiveness and has a major trust issues. These signs will never disappear over time. It will actually get worse after marriage. It may fade as you get older particularly if she knows that you're not capable of making love to a woman any longer. If a woman is jealous type, she will be jealous with your own parents or relatives as well when it comes to attending holiday celebration or parties. She will control you and persuade you into going to her side of the family instead of sharing the day between your relatives and hers. Worse case scenario will be your jealous wife competing for attention with her own kids.

Understanding and Kindness.
A woman that understands her man is a keeper and the right woman to marry. Kindness, on the other hand, goes with being able to understand how her husband feels from time to time. Being able to go out with your friends at times without getting a hassle nor receiving a guilty conscience from your partner is awesome. Accepting that sometimes, time with the "boys" is needed for her partner to unwind.

Lunes, Abril 25, 2011

What do Girls look for in Guys

He will be brilliant conversationalist
He will be sensitive, kind, understanding and loving.
He will be a very hard working man.
He will help around the house by washing dishes,vacuuming the floor and taking care of the garden.
He will be a man of emotional and physical strength.
He will be as smart as Einstein but look like Tom Cruise. 

Any woman dreams of a perfect lover with whom she can experience the passion of love for the first time, but according to most women, such lovers are extremely rare to meet (at a ratio of one to a thousand). So the chances that your husband will be an ideal lover are slim. Still, they exist. How can we spot a superman in a crowd of ordinary men?

An ideal man handles a woman’s breast with care; he never pulls or squeezes them because he’s against force and all for passionate kisses and tender bites.
An ideal man never interrupts a make-out session to answer his phone or switch TV channels.
An ideal man understands that his charm isn’t in the size of his organ, but in his sincere feeling towards a woman.
Creativity and diversity in sex are great, but an ideal lover realizes that his partner isn’t a circus dancer.
An ideal man doesn’t make love only at night as he realizes that his woman is tired after a long, hectic day and needs a good rest. Morning sex is great as the body is rested and the body temperature is high enough to increase sensitivity.

An ideal lover is gentle, patient, and attentive to all your needs, gestures, and words. He lavishes beautiful words on you -- not just before sex, but during it and after it as well. He looks at you as if there are no other women in the world, and this makes you the most beautiful and desirable. He likes all of you: your hair, lips, neck, knees, and toes. His every glance is meaningful, and your heart pounds and invisible wings take you up to the sky. You can feel blue, but never bored with him.

What do girls notice first about a guy?
                His smile
                His attitude
                His clothes
                His body
                His hair
What feature do girls find most attractive on guy?
                Eyes
                Smile
                Hair
                Abs
                Chest
                Lips
                Butt
                Skin tone
                Hands
                ….^_^
Girls wanted to date a guy who’s…??
                Non Smoker
                Single
                Taller
                Older
                Big time jock
                Clean teeth
                Fair complexion
                Good looking
               
                

Linggo, Abril 24, 2011

What do Guys look for in Girls?

Boys are not really looking for attractive girls. They look for girls they will be proud to show to their families. Being attractive is only secondary traits but the inner attitude will be the deciding factor.

Physical Attraction

You don't have to have the perfect body, but a guy wants a girl their attracted to. Nice hair, eyes, and smile are a big plus. But, it's the personality in the long run that's going to make that person appear more beautiful or less attractive. All men always want to marry the beautiful woman.

A Good Sense of Humor

Guys don't want a girl with a dull personality. They want someone who will laugh at their jokes and be able to hold a good conversation. They love girls that smile and laugh a lot. They don't want girls that are always negative about everything. A sense of humor can help you overlook the unattractive, tolerate the unpleasant, cope with the unexpected, and smile through the unbeatable

 A Good Career.

It's a turn on to them when a girl is career driven and/or has a good education. I really want to say they want a "sugar mama," but they really just want someone that is successful and happy with their life. You don't have to be a doctor or lawyer. It's the drive that shows them that you know who you are, and you know what you want. 

 Intelligence.

When they're looking for a "real" girlfriend, they don't want the airhead, bimbo type. They want someone they can introduce to their friends and family with confidence. They want someone who can do their homework for them. No, I'm just kidding. They just want someone whose on their level, someone they can talk to, and someone that will listen to them and understand.

 A Good Attitude.

They want someone with a good attitude towards life. Someone they can have fun with. Guys don't like girls that are always feeling sorry for themselves, or are negative towards everything. A good attitude is an asset in personal and professional life.

A little bit of kindness goes a long way

Sometimes physical beauty is not sufficient to make a woman appealing to men. She also has to have an inner beauty which encompasses the feeling of compassion and kindness. Most guys will want women who still retain their feminine side, namely those who are caring and gentle. This inner beauty can't be obtained over a brief period of time. It can only be developed slowly by the woman herself.

Compatibility

This is another important thing that men look for in women. Being compatible is more than just sharing the same hobbies and favorite movies. Nor is it about one half completing the other, no matter what Jerry McGuire says. Two people in a loving relationship should have a certain chemistry that allows them to click on almost every level. They could have different favorite food, incompatible horoscopes or even support different political parties. But, if both of them are really in love, all of those are forgotten. Maybe, that is what compatibility really is; the readiness to forgo each other's differences

Sabado, Abril 23, 2011

Common Relationship Problems


Lack of Trust

Infidelity damages the relationship---in a lot of cases, couples break up for good. However, for those who decide to take a second chance, mistrust for the cheating partner becomes an absolute consequence of the infidelity. Of course, if your partner has cheated on you, you will always doubt them. You will always wonder if he's in bed with another woman. You will keep on checking his phone and personal accounts just to make sure that the infidelity doesn't happen again. This is a common relationship problem. Eventually, the lack of trust drives the other person crazy---all the questioning, all the checking on. It's bound to make both parties crack under the pressure of disagreements all revolving around cheating and mistrust. Soon enough, the fights will take a toll on them. If not handled well, then separation becomes the next logical step for the couple.

Infidelity

The temptation to cheat will always be present in any relationship. And once a partner cheats, the relationship takes a blow. Infidelity is one of the common relationship problems that is seemingly inevitable. Having a third party, and being caught, seriously damages the relationship. Loyalty and commitment are two of the biggest pillars that hold the relationship together, and cheating crumbles these pillars down. Perhaps it is too much familiarity and a lack of mystery and variety, or simply the innate nature of man to be polygamous that lead a partner to being an infidel. Nevertheless, this is a common relationship problem that couples must be aware of and discuss in detail before they become serious. It helps to set bounds and rules: to come up with an agreement as to what will happen in case one becomes unfaithful. It's like having a fear of punishment. Crimes are deterred by the threat of life sentence or capital punishment. Although infidelity per se may not be fully avoidable, the possibility of separation could still be prevented.

Incompatibility

Let's face it. Some couples get together because of that initial lust: it's purely physical attraction. They're great in bed together. But what comes after that? If you cant talk to each other and you don't really have many things in common to sustain a healthy conversation, then this becomes a problem. Incompatibility is also one of the common relationship problems that makes itself apparent after some time of being together. Sex is not enough to hold a relationship together---there has to be attraction, intellectual stimulation, having hobbies and pastimes together, good conversations, etc. Without these, the relationship will not survive.

Lack of Communication

Almost all your problems can be solved if you simply knew how to communicate effectively with your partner. Simply talking is not what communication is all about. By effective communication I mean, your partner should understand exactly what it is you're trying to say. Reasons behind lack of communication vary from couple to couple, but the important thing is you shouldn't let these problems come in the way of your relationship. Always talk things out between yourselves before they get worse and never let lack of communication lead to misunderstandings and distrust in any relationship.

Jealousy

Jealousy is a secondary emotion and typically refers to the negative thoughts and feelings of insecurity, fear, and anxiety over an anticipated loss of something that the person values, particularly in reference to a human connection. Jealousy often consists of a combination of presenting emotions such as anger, sadness, and disgust. It is not to be confused with envy.
The occasional jealousy in a relationship is very normal and can in fact be healthy. However, if your partner gets all green faced with jealousy (the same goes for you too) every time you talk to someone from the opposite sex, then that is not normal and can cause problems in your relationship. If you are jealous open it with your partner and took about it (Lack of communication).




Miyerkules, Abril 20, 2011

Most Common Computer Problems

Well, the biggest problem that your computer has is its owner. More than 80% of computer problems stem from neglecting to perform simple maintenance task such as cleaning your registry, emptying your cache files and updating software regularly. If these task a perform diligently. You would be reading this article from a five year old machine running on Windows 98 operating system.

Computer has performance has slowed.

            Learn How to Speed Up PC Performance with 4 expert tips!
                       - Use a Registry Cleaner.
                       - Defrag your hard drive
                       - Scan for Adware/Spyware and Viruses
                       - Adjust your computer’s Visual effects

Lockup, freezes, and blue screens of death.

Computer freeze is one of the most common computer problems experienced, and is typically easy to fix, particularly if it is an isolated problem. However, if the computer locks up on a regular basis, there may be something more serious going on. Most often, simply uninstalling the responsible program, updating hardware and software, and/or cleaning your drives will do the trick. But in more persistent cases of computer freeze, there are a few things you can try before giving up or bringing in the professionals.
                 The Blue Screen known officially as a Stop Error  or a bug check, is the error screen displayed by the Microsoft Windows family of operating systems upon encountering a critical error, of a non-recoverable nature, that causes the system to "crash." The term is named after the color of the screen generated by the error.Stop errors are usually hardware or driver related, causing the computer to stop responding in order to prevent damage to the hardware, whereupon, in the latest versions of Windows, the screen presents information for diagnostic purposes that was collected as the operating system performed a bug check.


The computer spontaneously reboots or turn itself off.

This computer problem can be usually attributed to a hardware issue. It could be the power supply is on its way out or a dirty or defective cooling fan. The computer is trying to cool itself by automatically switching off. So, if you feel a bit of extra heat coming out the computer. clean the fan and make sure it's running properly.
 Strange noises and vibrations.
This is almost entirely a hardware problem. Computer consists of thousands of parts. It is not uncommon for one of them can be hinges. Overheating can cause enlargement of wires and melt some sensitive. High pitch sound like screaming or whining sound can lead to electronic components. Whatever the reason, do a little investigation. Remove the case and run the computer to the origin of the computer problem. If there is a simple case of a loose wire or a fan problem, it may be time to call a computer tech.


Your home page, default search engine, or web browser has changed itself.

This is also known as "high-jacking". Spyware may have been installed on your computer via social networking or from an email link. This action has allowed spyware to install a java script into your web browser. The spyware then sends a message to your browser to change your user settings. For example change your home page to another web page.



Are you Happy?


Happiness is a mental state of well-being characterized by positive emotions ranging from contentment to intense joy. A variety of biological, psychological, religious, and philosophical approaches have striven to define happiness and identify its sources

Tips to be happy:
     Be optimistic
     Follow you gut
     Make enough money to meet you basic needs
     Stay close to friend and family
     Find happiness in the job you have now
     Smile
     Forgive
     Make friend in church
     Be contented
    Be healthy
  Be good
   Be a lover

Understand what it is that will make you happy. Everyone has unique requirements for attaining happiness and what makes one person happy may be very different from what makes someone else happy. Revel in your individuality and do not worry about whether or not your desires are comparable to those of your peers. Surround yourself with happy people. It is easy to begin to think negatively when you are surrounded by people who think that way. Conversely, if you are around people who are happy their emotional state will be infectious. When something goes wrong try to figure out a solution instead of wallowing in self pity. Truly happy people don’t allow set back to affect their mood because they know that with a little thought they can turn the circumstances back to their favor. Spend a few minutes each day thinking about the things that make you happy. These few minutes will give you the opportunity to focus on the positive things in your life and will lead you to continued happiness. It’s also important to take some time each day to do something nice for yourself. Whether you treat yourself to lunch, take a long, relaxing bath or simply spend a few extra minutes on your appearance you will be subconsciously putting yourself in a better mood.

Happiness is hard to define but most people are aware of whether they are happy or not. Many people believe that happiness is a form of luck and that some people are destined to be happy while others are destined to be unhappy

Even if happiness forgets you a little bit, never completely forget about it
~Jacques Prévert

If you want to be happy, be.  ~Leo Tolstoy