It is a very common question, "How can I say that I'm in love?", but it is not an easy question to answer. What feels like love to one person may be nothing more than attraction to another. Some people fall in and out of love quickly and often while others are never really in love as much as they are in lust.
Love is based on more than just physical attraction. Sure, attraction is a factor, but love goes deeper than that. Love is based on caring, friendship, commitment and trust. When you are in love it is as if you have your best most trusted friend at your side AND you feel physically attracted to them. It is the best of both worlds! Love is a shared feeling between two people who have a vested interest in one another’s happiness. Love is not about jealousy. It is not about conflict. It is not about testing. Love is a positive feeling. If it is tainted by mistrust, jealousy, insecurity or spitefulness it is not really love but merely a pale copy. Love is the total surrender of your heart to another person with the security of knowing they will treat it better than you will. Love should feel good. It should not feel bad. Love should make you want to be a better person, it should not lead you to do something self destructive. Love is not demanding of your spirit but lifts it and makes it glow. Love is a good thing. Anything less is lust, deep friendship or attraction. So the happiness aside, the question remains, how can you tell you are in love?
This maybe the answer of your question…
You know you are in love when every time you start to think about the one you love, butterflies start flying in your stomach.
You know you are in love when you fine yourself shopping with that person and you feel like everything is right in the world.
You know you are in love when you can't stop touching that person.
You know you are in love when you feel miserable when you are away from that person.
You know you are in love when you start planning a future in your head.
You know you are in love when can't stop smiling every time you see that person.
You know you are in love when you fine yourself shopping with that person and you feel like everything is right in the world.
You know you are in love when you can't stop touching that person.
You know you are in love when you feel miserable when you are away from that person.
You know you are in love when you start planning a future in your head.
You know you are in love when can't stop smiling every time you see that person.
You know when you feel like you can't live without the person. It feels like you can't be without them for even a second. When you see them you get excited because you know your going to spend time in your day with the person.
You could start sweating if your a person that gets nervous very easy.
You are clumsy (normally in first part of the relationship)
You can tell your friends about him/her and don't care what they say about
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